Hello everyone, 

Life has been treating me well or that is what I like to believe. With time I have learned to believe that whatever happens, happens for good. Its not necessary that you understand why things happen at the very moment but later on with time things always start making sense. We need to have a little faith in ourselves and our fate. 

Let me share with you few the important lessons I have learned last year. Not everyone is meant to be in your life always, there must be someone who was one of the most important person in your life, it is not necessary they stay important forever. with time people, situations and things and we need to learn to adapt not be stuck on an old feeling. At tough times we try to save the relation, thinking its our duty to give more than 100% and save it. Its okay that you decide to try and its also okay if you decide to try harder coming out of your comfort zone but while trying give yourself a pause and think if the person was actually worth it. Remember any relationship is a two way street and if the person doesn’t see your effort then maybe its the wrong person.

If I want to say you guys something it would not be some sweet nothings about a happy easy life it would be hard core advice I would give you as a person who wants to share things I learned so when you go through that situation it would be easier for you. Never let your ego come in between you and someone you care. I would say you to fight for someone worth, fight for your self respect but also be sure whom and what to fight for. Know whats worth and what is not. Your anger, your ego will take you to places you never want to visit.

Life gives you your share of ups and down, the steep turn coming ahead on the journey will always be a blind turn you will have to be slow, keep legs on the break and a tight hand on the the steering. So the leg on the breaks are the time you should know when to stop your anger and slow down against the flow. The hand on the steering are the people who love you, keep them closer, hold them tight. I know we can drive easily with one hand but at turn and in times of danger you need both hand on the steering. So when things mess up you don’t leave the steering you hold it tighter and put your efforts because the people you love will stay even in the difficult of situation if you show them that you care.

In life there is balance and symmetry in everything. Weird enough but wise to understand that the balance and symmetry bring harmony peace same as that every relationship in life needs balance and symmetry. Efforts are put from both sides and the balance is maintained. You have to give your best to maintain the balance as when you lose it you loose many things. Life works on barter system.  Its give respect take respect, give love get love. You cannot always be on the getting side or always be on the giving side. Sometimes you understand some times the other.

Life is not when you pose up  for people, life is when people show up for you. We all hear love is selfless indeed it is but we can love and hate the people at the same time. Sometimes we love people so bad that it hurts, never let anyone feel pain because they love you. Life is all about honesty because honesty helps you gain loyalty and loyalty make every relationship stronger. Even in the baddest of situation don’t give up if you think someone is worth but amidst it don’t forget to also stand for yourself and your respect.

They say you have to meet at the bridge for a successful relationship to go, I say be on the other side and burn the bridge, see if they find some other way to come across the deep waters.
Always know your worth and I am glad I have people who are worth my effort and decide to stay by my side in my thick and thin. I hope you all also find amazing people in your life who never let your beautiful smile slip of your face.

I don’t want you all to read this once and forget about it, I want you guys to comeback and read this again when ever needed in your life and I hope it helps and gives you the motivation and inspiration needed.

I hope you guys are doing well,

If not then smile as things will get better soon.

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